Ronald Lyle Goldman was born on July 2, 1968 in
Buffalo Grove, Illinois (a Chicago suburb). His
birth parents,
Fred
and Sharon, divorced when Ron and his
younger
sister
Kim
were very small. Ron and Kim were then reared solely by their
father -- and each
other. This made for a tight, "you and
me
against the
world" bond. In 1987, Fred married
Patti
Glass, who,
herself, had children. Patti and her
children, Brian,
Lauren and Michael were quickly accepted
by
Ron and Kim.
Ron became protective of Lauren almost
instantly -- to the
point of firing a babysitter she said
had
been mean to
her, and taking over himself.
1987
was
also the year
that
the newly-blended Goldman family moved
to
California. Ron
took to California "like a fish to
water" as
his father
puts it.
Ron's warmth,
charm
and friendly
attitude
made him very
popular with everyone he met.
Friends of Ron's have said that people
just
loved him, and
loved to be around him because he was
very
genuine -- a
rare thing in Southern California.
Ron
would
go out of
his way to make people feel special, but
he
never
patronized them. A good example of this
was
when
Ron was doing
volunteer work at the Westlake United
Cerebral Palsy
Residence Home. He would help the
patients
out of
bed, bathe them,
do their hair, and other tasks that we
take
for granted.
He was also known to play music over the
residence home's P.A. system and dance
with
the patients.
Another
example of his kindness, says close
friend and
fellow
Mezzaluna employee Stew Tanner, is the
day he
helped an Italian woman convert her
money to
U.S. dollars.
Ron took the woman to a bank, and then
showed
her what
each bill and coin was, and explained
how
much each was
worth. "That's the kind of person he
was,"
says
Tanner.
Ron had a bright future ahead of him in
the
summer of
1994; he had plans for what he wanted
his
life to be, and
it seemed, at the time of his death, to
all
be coming
together. At the age of 25, Ron planned
to
get married,
have a family, and open a
restaurant/club.
A
place where people could read their
poetry,
display art --
a place for fun and self-expression. The club,
Ron
said, would not
have a name; but like The Artist
Formerly Known As Prince,
would be represented by a symbol - an
ankh,
the Egyptian
symbol for eternal life.
Ron had
a
tattoo of an
ankh on his shoulder, and wore one
around his
neck. It
became his symbol; it captured his
personality, and his bright outlook on
life.
On June 12, 1994, Ron's bright world
came to
a violent
end.
While returning glasses to
Nicole
Brown-Simpson, Ron stumbled upon her
being
murdered. Being
the man he was, Ron stepped in to help
--
but
instead,
lost his life alongside her in the dark,
cold
shadows of
her garden.
He died because of his
tremendous love
for
people. There's no way he could have just run away.
Ron is, and always will be, a
hero.
The
symbol of the
ankh now adorns Ron's gravestone.
The
necklace that he
wore now hangs around the neck of his
sister
and soul mate,
Kim.